How Do I Get My Ex Back?

That was the question I was asking myself over and over and over again!

How do I turn back time?

How do I wipe the slate clean and recapture my exlover’s heart, mind and soul?

I had no idea what to do. The situation seemed hopeless.

But before I tell you about my story, let me ask about yours. Have you been trying … in vain… to get your ex back?

Check this out now even if you’ve already broken up.:

1st Step To Stopping A Break Up

How Do I Get My Ex Back?

I’m going to prove to you that I can help.

Here’s a bit of free advice that you can put into practice right now!

What To Do If She Won’t Return Your Calls

If I told you there were some “magic words” you could use to get your ex to return your calls, you’d think I was an idiot. Or worse, you’d think I was trying to play you for a fool, right?

But you know for a fact you can say the WRONG THING and turn her off completely. You’ve seen it happen. So it makes sense that you could also say the RIGHT THING and she would actully feel compelled to call you back right away. It’s not magic, it’s simply knowing what to say.

I’m going to share the “magic words” with you because this is the one question I get asked the most by people like you… people who are trying to rebuild a relationship.

“How do I get my ex to return my calls, or texts?”

Before I answer that question, BEWARE!

Getting your ex back has to be part of a complete plan or strategy. If you don’t know exactly what to do next when she does call back, then you could easily damage your relationship even further.  In The Magic of Making Up, I will show you a complete plan of what to do step-by-step to make sure you end with success.

What You Should Never Say

The two most common traps people fall into are…

PLEADING – “John, please, please call me. This is the third time I’ve called and I really need to talk to you.”

or the EMERGENCY – “Tammy, please call me right away, this is an emergency!”

I hope you can see just by reading this how pathetic these messages are. No wonder they don’t get returned. If you’re using any variation of the “needy” approach, STOP RIGHT NOW!

Use Human Nature to Your Advantage

Two of the most powerful motivators are:

• Curiosity
• Self-Interest

So here’s the “Magic Formula” – When you combine Curiosity with Self-Interest in the same message, you have an unbeatable combination that will work like Magic!

Using a casual, “off-hand” tone of voice, you could say something like,

“Hi Steve, this is Sara. I just wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me and I’d like to thank you personally, so give me a call when you have a chance.”

How could Steve resist that combination of arousing his curiosity, “I wonder what I did?” with self-interest (“thanks” can be many things).

Another very important factor is that this is a positive message ABOUT THEM and not about you!

Before you make this type of call, you have to be prepared. This means you have to find something the other person did that you really do appreciate. It can be a small thing, but it has to be real. If you don’t sincerely appreciate what you talk about, it will show and you’ll come off as fake and just make things worse.

Remember – Before you use this powerful technique – You Must Have a Game Plan for the Follow Up!

You can find that complete Game Plan in The Magic of Making Up Read it BEFORE you make that call. If you don’t have the right strategy ready to go, you will only make things worse.

It should be obvious that EVERYTHING you do before, during and after they return your call is actually going to be the secret to your sucess, not simply getting them to return one call. You need the “total game.”

Makes sense, eh?

The Magic of Making Up Read it BEFORE you make that call.